When a friend is going through a difficult time, most of us reach for the same words, like “Let me know how I can help.” It comes from a good place, but when someone is exhausted or overwhelmed, deciding what they need put more work on them. When the meal sign ups are full or you would like to do something besides bring dinner, the kindest thing we can do is offer specific help and quietly take something off their plate. Here are practical ways and What to Do for A Friend In Need (Besides Bringing Dinner)
Bring breakfast or lunch instead of dinner. Sign up links get filled up quick for dinner, this is a great alternative. Bringing breakfast or lunch items is a great alternative. Think sandwich trays, snacks, fruit, muffins. @thecollarfind tip: Use disposable containers and paper products, this keeps them from keeping track and returning dishes.
Leave a cooler of drinks on the porch. Fill a cooler with bottled waters, and drinks fi the house is full of people. Leave it with a short note and no expectation to visit. This is especially helpful if family is in town.
Bring fresh fruit and flowers. Families often receive heavy meals. A large bowl of washed, chopped fruit gives everyone an easy snack. A simple bouquet brightens a room without adding responsibility. There are few more ideas here.
Take a responsibility off their calendar. Pick up a prescription, drive a child to practice, return packages, or collect a grocery order. Specific help is easier to accept than an open-ended offer.
Restock household essentials. Toilet paper, paper towels, tissues are essentials they use every day. Replenishing those without askign take son thing off their heavy load.
Tip: I keep a few supplies on hand like the special Thinking of You ribbon, disposable trays and more. Check them out here. . The Friend in Need what to do for a friend in need ( besides bringing dinner) series began as a way to share practical ideas for helping family and friends during hard seasons.
I’m a southern mom with big kids that has been on the receiving and giving side of need, and I hope these ideas help. For more ideas and videos, follow along on Instagram!